[bornbad71]

Oh MissB I wish it was that easy....actually she did that with the first guy and it was great, I got to spend more time with my kids. This is different, she is introducing them in hopes it is a long lasting relationship....I realize that she is trying to see if the person will accept the boys, but if she has to introduce them for that person to accept them then that is kinda screwed up IMHO. One can't base a relationship on weather or not they like your kids....I look at it like this, I have two kids that are my heart and soul, so a wonan has to accept that first....if that is a problem then she is gone...simple as that.
I don't hide the fact that I have two kids when I start to date someone, but just because I have the two kids doesn't mean that the person I am dating is going to meet them.....I want to make sure I have a solid relationship before introducing someone to my kids and that person has to accept that my kids are a huge part of my life and that we are a package deal, so to speak. Like I said above I have introduced one person to my kids and she is gone, so in a way I feel as if I brought a person into my kids lives that isn't there anymore, and I told myself I would make damn sure I had a solid relationship before doing that, but as we all know tthings don't always work out like we hope.
If it was only once that she has done this,not three times, then it wouldn't be so bad.....I know if this doesn't work out for her then they will be meeting someone else in the future....I just don't think it is fair to my kids to drag so many ppl in and out of their lives....I will stop now because I'm starting to get angry just typing this.